Monday, 12 December 2011
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Family Incest
This article is therefore written with a place of understanding together with deepest humility.
Next I want to explain is that I don't claim to supply the universal end all and become all answer to almost any question. That is not my intention (of course, if it were, I would stop reading now if i were you). My intention is always to inspire you to your new thought, to be useful for finding a key that will unlock a new door mentally.
Only your own personal new thought can take you to another level or supply you with the growth and expansion you seek. And, only you may unlock that new door. No one outside of you may supply your ultimate answers because they are unique to you. I simply hope to inspire you to that new thought (whether you agree with the words in this article or not).
Consequently, with that out of the way, let's dig into those questions:
1) Why the need to surround oneself with of those with similar karma?
In truth, you do not need to surround yourself with those with similar karma. You are attracting people with similar vibrations to your own personal. When your predominant vibration is considered one of "victimhood", "violation", "damage", "blame" or any other thing (positive or negative), this becomes the predominant message that you're sending out into the universe and the universe absolutely will reflect the parallel back to you. This is inescapable as a result of law of attraction. It is an absolute and count on it!
2) Self-history with victim of incest and abuse, now emergent pattern inside my child's life as well. How do we both liberate?
This can be the hardest one for you to hear, but in my own experience, there is only one path to true freedom: You must completely let go of the illusion of "victimhood" - and in many cases the "survivor" mentality - and drop the "blame cycle" solely. As long as you will be "blaming" or holding someone past yourself responsible for everything in you life, you can't truly progress. Period of time. You must take full responsibility for everything inside your current reality.
This is certainly tough to hear and even tougher to do. (Believe me, I know!) But fortunately, if you can embrace this message, you do not believe the empowerment and freedom that lie in advance of you! It is like a magic wand that will transform you into something you didn't know had been possible. Really! (And, by the way, the most powerful thing you could do to help your child at this point is to demonstrate doing that!)
3) Can there be a transformation of damaging karma possible through doing great for others who suffer in the same way?
Ever again, this may be slightly tough to hear, nevertheless very empowering once truly embraced: You do not want to "transform" anything poor. What you need is always to shift your focus faraway from "negative" to "positive".
You will be growing, evolving and accomplishing for more. That's why you are here on this planet today. You can call this "transforming" if you like, but it isn't about focusing on something negative until that becomes positive.
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